A man sat down to supper with his family

A man sat down to supper with his family. As usual, he said grace, thanking God
for the food, for the hands that prepared it, and for the source of all life. As the
meal proceeded, the man began to complain. The bread was not fresh enough,
he grumbled. The cheese was too sharp. And the coffee was hotter and bitterer
than he preferred.

After a while, his young daughter looked at him, perplexed. "Dad," she asked,
"do you think God heard the grace today?" He answered confidently, "Of course."
Then she asked, "And do you think God heard what you said about the coffee, the
cheese, and the bread?" Not so confidently, he answered, "Why, yes, I believe so."
The little girl concluded, "Then which do you think God believed, Dad?"

The man usually had a quick response to any question his daughter asked. Now,
he sat in stunned silence. The man realized that his mealtime prayer had become a
well-practiced habit in which he said words that made him look and feel good.
He also saw how his real attitude, as revealed by the spontaneous
words in his complaints, was not what he wanted, or even liked.

This story illustrates an interesting thing about the tongue. It can be helpful, or
destructive. The tongue can encourage, or discourage. It can spread love, or spew
forth venom.

The difference is not in the tongue itself. The difference is in one's heart. Many
hidden diseases of the body are detected when doctors look into the mouth. Hidden
diseases of the spirit and mind are revealed by what comes out of the mouth.

You see, people get a picture of who you really are by the way you use your tongue.
Fortunately, you can frame the content of that picture. As Proverbs 17:28 says,
"Even a fool is thought wise if he keeps silent, and discerning if he holds his tongue."

Evaluate the words you use and your tone of voice. What picture are
you painting of yourself with the things that come out of your mouth?

But don't stop with the question of your appearance. Consider what your words
and tone of voice say about your spiritual condition. Do the things that come
out of your mouth reflect God's values and standards? Do they give
evidence of a strong relationship with Jesus Christ? If they don't, why not?

For your own health and happiness, deal with the conditions these symptoms
reveal. A heart problem can be extremely dangerous if you fail to give it proper
attention.